In reflection, what frightened me most was the way Riku tried to weaponize love and necessity against us. He aimed his cruelty at the most tender place—my mother’s willingness to provide—and sought to trade our dignity for convenience. The episode taught me that bullies are often strategic, targeting not just the person they want to dominate but those who support them. Countering that requires both courage and craft: courage to speak up, craft to gather allies and build systems that make manipulation harder.